When you see your animals as equals instead of something you “own” your entire relationship will change for the better.
I have always loved animals. I have always been an animal person. I always did the best I knew how to do and followed what I thought was the right way to do things. I was always kind, never forceful. My animals have always been happy and loved. They were always happy.
But, I didn’t always see their behaviors from their perspective. I saw it through mine in my 20s and early 30s. Once I started really communicating with animals, lots of them, I started seeing their behavior from their perspective and it changed everything!

I had happy animals, but now? Now my animals are a new level of happiness. There isn’t an underlying confusion on their end. My relationships with them is so different in the best way! What I thought was the best it could be, wasn’t even the tip of the best it could be!
So now my goal is to help others realize how much things change for you and your pets when you see everything they do from their perspective. Not your projected perception. Their actual perception. Everything they do stems from love, acceptance, and a desire to try to make their guardian proud and keep heir guardian safe. They will never understand our perspective, they aren’t wired that way.
When you see behaviors through their perspective your pets will not be confused or scared, ever! And the relationship between the two of you will reflect that!