Your Pet’s Mental Health

Your pets mental health must always come first when making decisions.

It’s easy to forget that animals can suffer from emotional abuse (often unintentional) not just physical abuse. We can all say “bad people” physically abuse animals, but often animals are emotionally stressed with loving guardians! Just out of a lack of understanding.

It’s easy to forget their our decisions affect their emotional health greatly.

It’s easy to forget how important their mental and emotional health is.

It’s easy to pay attention to physical health. Bring them to the vet when they need it. Feed them nutritious meals. Trim their nails. Bathe them.

But what about their mental and emotional health? Is your pet depressed? Sad? Does your pet feel unloved at times (unintentionally)? Does your pet feel abandoned? Left out? Again, almost always unintentionally but kind, loving guardians. Are they emotionally stressed or fragile because we have unintentionally put them into situations that are too much fo them mentally? This happens often! Again, unintentionally. Either with “training”, where we leave them when we aren’t with them, or not thinking about how our decisions for our lives, affect them.

They are part of our lives so our decisions should always consider them. And we should be willing to make decisions in ways that do not jeopardize their emotional health.

For the most balanced mentally and emotionally healthy animals we do have to teach them enough confidence and independence that they are calm and content when away from us.

Sometimes animals will be in stressful, anxious, or uncomfortable situations. When they are emotionally well and strong, they can adapt. If they face these kind of situations too often, and on their own, without support, or even just one situation that is too overwhelming, they will emotionally suffer.

Their mental health is as fragile and as important as ours, as humans. And like humans, some animals are mentally stronger, mentally less sensitive. Others are overly sensitive, and overly fragile.

All of you on this page are here because you want to be the best guardian for your animals. You want to love them, support them, and most importantly understand them.

If you become aware of their mental health, look into their eyes, watch them when they don’t know you are watching them, you’ll be able to get a glimpse into how theyre doing.

If you do feel your dog is depressed, sad, or otherwise struggling with mental health, I can help. Animal communication is also pet therapy! It is letting them talk, so we can make a plan to help them feel better.

1-207-849-0096 Text or Angie@AngieMorin.com

Leaving Your Pet When You Travel

Leaving your pet while you go on vacation can be very stressful. We all have many options. We can have pet sitters come to the house. We can bring them with us or we can put them in boarding.

Sometimes we don’t have a choice and we only have one option. No matter how well adjusted your animal is boarding is a very stressful environment for them. It’s full of dogs people in places they don’t know even if they’ve been before the dogs are changing so the energy in the boarding facility is also changing .

This means every time they go it feels different. You also have to remember that animals do not behave like their normal selves when they are in boarding. This doesn’t only apply to your pet but to all of the other animals that aren’t there. This can create more stress and more confusion. This can create unsafe situations, tension, or anxiety in animals.

It’s very hard for our pets when we leave for days because we are all they have. We are their entire life. As I have mentioned if we tell them where we are going and for how long it helps to ease a lot of of their anxiety.

If you are hiring a sitter or if you are sending them to a boarding location, it’s important to tell them so they know what’s going on. Tell them where they’re going when you will be back and when they will be picked up if they are at boarding.

Though it isn’t always possible, animals will do better in their home a place they know a place they feel safe and a place they’re comfortable. They will be able to smell your scent the entire time you’re gone if they stay at home.


If you must leave them, leave clothes that smell like you, so they feel comfort and know you have not abandoned them. Also, bringins things from home can help them know they are returning back home. And tell them you are coming back for them, and tell them when.

Leaving an animal requires extreme villigence on your part to make sure you are leaving them with somebody who will take a very best care of them. It is important to have camera cameras in your home and at the facility that you can check in on.

Animals may make mistakes when you’re gone because of the stress from you leaving it is important that you have somebody patient that shows them only love

And when possible, please leave your animals at home with somebody that you can trust 1000%. they will always have less stress in their home than in a boarding situation

Small Dog Syndrome

Yes, it’s real. Chihuahuas get a bad rep. Small dogs tend to have less patience. But, there’s a reason.

Small dogs (in general) get less “training” than big dogs. Many people assume they don’t need it because they can just pick them up and move them. They don’t pull as hard on a leash. They often can barely keep up when we walk anyway.

But, many of these small dogs feel constantly overwhelmed and that’s what their behavior often reflects.

Instead of calling them over and waiting for them to respond, it is easier to pick them up and move them to where you want them. When you call a dog, they have time to process it and make a choice, and know where they are headed (to their human in the kitchen for example). A small dog, is just surprised! All of a sudden they’ve been picked up and have no idea where they are going.

They are often assumed to be easier because they are smaller. But in reality they need the same care and enrichment and exercise! Especially the terriers!

Small dogs are prone to a lot of barking. Why? Usually, they aren’t getting enough exercise. Or, they are trying to use their voice because they rarely feel heard or respected. They are trying to feel big in a world that makes them feel small (and therefore unsafe).

The best things for small dogs, is to treat them like big dogs. Teach them all the same things. Exercise them. If they have less patience, understand there is a reason. They feel vulnerable. Small dogs gets pushed around a lot, not intentionally, just because of their size.

Their size makes them feel more like toys than dogs. Because of their size they are treated differently than larger dogs. This does not help them, it hurts them. They develop excessive behaviors to try to make up for their lack of confidence and their insecurities. They try to act “big”.

So if you have a small dog that is very reactive or that barks a lot. Start by teaching the dog all the things you would teach a 100 lb, strong dog. It will give your small dog confidence. It will give your small dog choice. It will give your small dog enrichment.

Your small dog will be so much happier and so much more balanced.

Why I want the unwanted, abandoned, discarded and forgotten about animals.

Let’s talk about discarded and abandoned animals. I’d choose those animals all day every day even when their behavior looks like a deterrent or a problem. Why?

These animals have been handed more burdens and traumas than they can count.
They have experienced trauma in some way (abuse, neglect, abandonment) and they haven’t given up. This shows they are resilient.

They have tolerated shelters, the streets, humans that have let them down. And they are still holding it together (despite some minor behaviors, barking, needing to learn house manners, etc..). This shows they have HIGHER thresholds than most animals coming from breeders. They have been forced to developed higher thresholds to discomfort, fear, and sometimes even pain.

They are survivors, they haven’t given up. This is the kind of animal I want by my side because that means they won’t give up on me. They are optimistic. To experience what they have and still have hope someone will come for them? That’s true optimism. That’s pure heart.

They have endured so much hardship they are SO appreciative once they settle in. They KNOW what life is like when things are hard. This makes them appreciate the good life even more.

And though they have endured so much they are willing to forgive and give humans yet another chance, even though it is not deserved. They are so forgiving.

They feel they have let humans down when in reality it has been the opposite. Humans letting them down. But because of this they try SO hard to be the best version of themselves every day so they don’t let humans down…. Again.

The animal you see in a shelter, on the streets, or newly in a foster home is NOT who the animal is, it is a reflection of the human they had. Or thier experiences with humans until this point. Our animals reflect us, we know that! So why don’t more people consider this when looking at shelter pets?

Once you give that animal time to reflect you (months), if you have a beautiful heart and you are kind, your animal will change and reflect that back to you.

So what is why I would choose a discarded animal every time without hesitation.

People look at the impression they make in a cage, in a shelter, on the streets. But that is NOT who those animals are. Those animals have so many desirable qualities.

  • Resilience
  • Higher than average thresholds
  • Optimism
  • Pure, Loyal, Appreciative heart
  • Forgiveness
  • Unmatched effort to being the best boy/girl they can be

This is how society needs to view discarded and abandon animals. As beautiful souls that bless our lives and teach US how to be better humans.

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