Crossing the Rainbow Bridge is considered by many to be the hardest day of pet guardianship. Our pets are family and the grief is real. They are not just ” a dog”, “a cat”, “a horse”, “a rabbit” etc.. They are best friends, ride or die’s, family members, side kicks, therapists, and so much more. They are our hearts. They are part of our soul. Their lives depend on us and its an honorable responsblity.
When it’s time to assist your pet in their transition to the rainbow bridge please do not feel guilty. Your pet chose you to be their guardian so you could assist your pet in this transition. It is an honor. You were chosen to care for them, to love them, and to help them transition. They chose you because they wanted you for all of this. After the time they have given to us, making us laugh, bringing us comfort and love, listening to us, and being a best friend, this is your opportunity to be of service to them. To show them love, comfort and respect.
* Let other pets say Good Bye.
* Thank your pet for it’s service.
* Share your best memories with your pet.
Tell you pet what your favorite things are (silly tricks, funny sounds, things your pet did that you enjoy)
* Thank your pet for coming to you.
* Most importantly, tell your pet it is ok to go.
Pets hold on for SO long when their guardians arent’s ready. They devote their entire lives to us and our happiness. Even if you aren’t ready, tell them it is ok to go. Allow them to go and to be free. They are not afraid. Remember they chose YOU to assist them during this time. Honoring this responsibility is the strongest form of love you can show your pet when you know it is their time to go.
